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Welcome to another uplifting episode of Motivational Monday.
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I'm your host, dr Quentin Moore, and this week we'll be shining a light on a topic that's often overlooked but incredibly important.
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That topic is men's mental health.
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June is Men's Mental Health Awareness Month, and today we're going to explore why this matters.
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We're going to address some common struggles men face and provide motivational tips for prioritizing your mental health and well-being.
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So why does men's health matter?
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For too long, there's been a stigma surrounding mental health, especially when it comes to men.
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Society has perpetuated the idea that men should be strong, stoic and never show vulnerability.
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But the truth is, mental health issues affect people of all genders, and ignoring these struggles can have serious consequences for not only the individual experiencing them, but for the loved ones around that individual.
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Mental health problems in men can manifest in various ways, including depression, anxiety, substance abuse and even physical symptoms like chronic pain or sleep disturbances.
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Untreated mental health issues constrain relationships, impact work performance and even lead to suicidal thoughts or actions.
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But by acknowledging and addressing men's mental health, we can break down these harmful stereotypes and create a more supportive environment for men to seek help and prioritize their well-being.
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Let's talk about some common mental health challenges that men often face.
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The first one would be difficulty expressing emotions.
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Many men struggle to express their feelings openly due to societal expectations of masculinity.
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Now, this can lead to the bottling up of emotions and increased stress levels and, as we all know, if we continue to bottle up our emotions and our stress levels continue to rise, these could cause dire consequences in the future over time, and it's just not worth it.
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We need to definitely address this.
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Another challenge that men face is work-related stress.
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The pressure to provide for families and meet career expectations can take a toll on men's health, leading to burnout, anxiety and depression.
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Another challenge would be relationship challenges.
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Communication breakdowns, intimacy issues and conflicts within relationships can contribute to mental health struggles for men.
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Trauma and PTSD.
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Men who have experienced traumatic events, such as combat veterans or survivors of abuse, they may develop post-traumatic stress disorder or PTSD and other mental health issues.
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It is very important that they seek treatment for these issues.
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The last I'll talk about and this is not an all-inclusive list, but the last that I will talk about is substance abuse.
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Some men may turn to alcohol and or drugs as a way to cope with mental health problems, which can lead to addiction and further compound their struggles with mental health.
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Remember, these challenges are not signs of weakness.
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They are real experiences that deserve attention and support.
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Now let's dive into some motivational tips to help prioritize your mental health and well-being.
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The first thing would be to break the silence.
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One of the most powerful things that you can do is to start talking about your mental health.
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Powerful things that you can do is to start talking about your mental health.
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Share your experiences with trusted friends, family members, your primary care professional or a mental health professional.
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Breaking the stigma starts with open and honest conversations.
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Another thing you can do is practice self-care.
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Make time for activities that nourish your mind, body and soul Exercise, get enough sleep, eat a balanced diet and engage in hobbies or activities that bring you joy and relaxation.
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Another way to approach it is to seek professional help.
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Now I want you to hear me on this.
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There's no shame in reaching out for support your healthcare provider and or mental health professionals.
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These people, such as therapists and counselors, can provide valuable guidance and coping strategies to manage your mental health and their challenges that come with them.
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A lot of the times, these individuals work together and use a team approach in helping you to overcome these challenges.
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Next, build a support network.
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Surround yourself with people who understand and support your mental health journey.
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Join a support group.
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Connect with others who have similar experiences or lean on trusted friends and family members.
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Another would be practice mindfulness and gratitude.
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Practice mindfulness and gratitude.
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Incorporate mindfulness practices, such as meditation or deep breathing exercises, into your daily routine.
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Additionally, cultivate a sense of gratitude by focusing on a positive aspect of your life, no matter how small.
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As a matter of fact, I have this device called a MediQuest 3 and I use this on a regular basis.
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I have an app on there called Trip and it's a meditation app.
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This is not a paid sponsorship.
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I want to say that this app is for meditation and I love it.
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I use it multiple times a week.
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I use it regularly to decompress and I honestly feel that it works for me.
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And the last tip that I will say for today is to prioritize self-compassion.
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What do I mean by that?
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I mean be kind and understanding towards yourself.
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A lot of times, we can be kind and understanding to others, but we can't be kind and understanding to ourselves.
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So we want you to prioritize compassion for yourself.
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Be kind and understanding towards yourself.
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Recognize that it's okay to have struggles and setbacks, treat yourself with the same compassion you would offer to a friend or a loved one.
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So we've gone through this journey and now I want you to know that you're not alone in this journey.
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Many men have overcome mental health challenges and found empowerment through their experiences.
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Let's take a moment to celebrate an inspiring story.
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Here is a direct quote from a famous person.
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Here is a direct quote from a famous person.
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For a couple of years there, I was going through some things and couldn't really get healthy mentally no-transcript.
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You start reaching out to people and I was very fortunate.
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I got the help I needed and I was able to prioritize things in my life.
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That is a direct quote from NBA star Kevin Love, who has openly discussed his struggles with anxiety and depression.
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Anxiety and depression.
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Now.
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These stories remind us that seeking help and prioritizing mental well-being is a sign of strength, not weakness.
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As we wrap up today's episode, remember that mental health matters.
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It's okay to acknowledge struggles and seek support when you need it.
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By breaking down stigmas and prioritizing self-care, we can create a more open and supportive environment for men to thrive in.
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Thank you for tuning in and remember You've got this.
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Stay strong, stay motivated and keep prioritizing your mental health and well-being.
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Until next time, I'm Dr Quentin Moore, wishing you all the best on your journey to better mental health.
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We out, thank you.